代写SOC315 Love in History: From Chivalry to Capitalism

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    SOC315
    Love in History:
    From Chivalry to Capitalism
    Harry Blatterer
    nLecture outline
    1. A brief history of love  
      Note on Eastern origins
      Love as Ideal: Medieval courtly love
      Love as Passion: 17th century to modernity
    2. Love and capitalism
      Love and alienation
      Love as art (Erich Fromm)

    nIn this unit we consider intimacy as a mode of interaction.
    nSpecifically, we address relationships outside the family and their ideals in the modern ‘western’ context.
    nWe trace the development of some of these ideals over time and discuss to what extent they match reality.
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    nSome of these modern ideals are:
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    nErotic love relationships, friendships and sexual encounters outside the family are voluntary.
    nFor them to be “intimate” they need to be relationships of affection and care based on trust, respect, equality and justice.
    nIntimacy is non-instrumental. (Intimates “use” each other only on the basis of affection and care. etc.)    


    nEastern origins of romantic love

    ‘More and more [Westerners] have an Arab and Persian heart, for it was from the Middle East that romantic love emerged. Europeans have chosen to forget not only that their language originates in India, but that it was there that the most modern view of sexual pleasures was conceived … One may feel isolated in one’s own town, but one has forebears all over the world.’ (Zeldin 1994: 47)

    nCultural transmission
    The Crusades (1025-1291)
    Music communicates feelings / emotions
    ‘rab love was transmitted to the French troubadours not by philosophers, but through music. The musicians on either side of the Pyrenees understood each other, because a mood is more infectious than an idea’ (Zeldin 1994: 78).
    Troubadours: ‘singer-songwriters’, France 12th -13th centuries

    nLove as ideal:
    Medieval courtly love
    Spiritual/emotional love

    Sexual love begins very slowly to be viewed positively

    Resistance to the Church/’outlet’ for passions

    Woman’s role passive (‘beloved’)

    But: recognition that eroticism is based on mutuality

    nLove as passion, intimacy and authenticity
    Emerging emphasis on individual uniqueness and authenticity

    Living life authentically (‘true to myself’) in relationships with others in conditions of mutual support.

    The problem: compatibility

    Compatibility no longer about external criteria (family, education, wealth, prestige), but about personal, emotional aspects

     
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    nLove becomes autonomous
    19th – 20th century romantic love (2)
    Undergoes a process of autonomisation: becomes its own world

    Becomes self-referential (e.g. ‘love for love’s sake’)

    Institutional expression of this development: the ‘love marriage’

    For a time this was special, today a banal fact

    Love becomes ‘ordinary’, part of everyday life (e.g. love novels, Hollywood movies, love songs, etc)

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    nLove and Capitalism
    Karl Marx (1818-1883)
    Interested in investigating the dehumanizing aspects of capitalism.

    His entire philosophy can be read as a protest against alienation.

    “Assume man as man, and his relation to the world as a human one, and you can exchange love only for love … If you love without calling forth love, that is, if your love as such does not produce love, if by means of an expression of life as a loving person you do not make yourself a loved person, then your 
    nErich Fromm (1900-1980)
    1929, joins Institute for Social Research
    1933, migrates to US in 1933; New School of
    Social Research, NY, Columbia, Yale
    Key contributor to Critical Theory’s synthesis
    of Marx and Freud (socio-economic structural
    influences on instincts)
    The Fear of Freedom (1942) The Sane Society (1955) The Art of Loving (1957)
    ‘If love is a capacity of the mature, productive character, it follows that the capacity to love in an individual living in any given culture depends on the influence this culture has on the character of the average person. If we speak about love in contemporary Western culture, we mean to ask whether the social structure of Western civilisation and the spirit resulting from it are conducive to the development of love. To raise the question is to answer in the negative. No objective observer of our Western life can doubt that love … is a relatively rare phenomenon ….’  (1996: 65)  
    nErich Fromm: The Art of Loving
    Our relation to the world under conditions of capitalism falls short of being ‘a human one.’

    Capitalism has distorted our personalities; exchange value as the supreme value leads to the formation of a marketing character

    Marx: love an impossibility under capitalism
    Fromm: not impossible, but difficult:
    nErich Fromm: The Art of Loving
    Love’s purpose: overcome our humanly specific aloneness

    But: not fusion with another, but unity that preserves individual integrity:

    ‘Mature love is a union under the conditions of preserving one’s integrity, one’s individuality. Love is an active power … which breaks through the walls which separate man from his fellow men which unites him with others; love makes him overcome the sense of isolation and separateness, yet it permits him to be himself, to retain his integrity. In love the paradox occurs that two beings become one and yet remain two.’

    nCulture of capitalism and love
    “Our character is geared to exchange and to receive, to barter and to consume; everything spiritual, as well as material objects, becomes an object of exchange and consumption.” (Fromm)

    How is that reflected in intimate relationships?
    n‘the relationship’ as investment
    nMoney/spending as ‘proof’ of love
    nFromm’s ‘marketing orientation’ gone literal: the dating market
    nReferences
    Aries, P. 1997, ‘Love in married life,’ Western Sexuality: Practice and Precept in Past and Present Times, eds P. Aries and A. Bejin, New York: Barnes and Noble,.
    Illouz, E. 2007, ‘Romantic Webs’, Cold Intimacies, Cambridge: Polity, pp. 74-114.
    Luhmann, N. 1984, Love as Passion: The Codification of Intimacy, Cambridge: Polity.
    Morris, C. 1995, The Discovery of the Individual: 1050 – 1200, Toronto: University of Toronto Press.
    Singer, I. 1984, The Nature of Love: Courtly and Romantic, vol. 2, Chicago and London: University of Chicago Press.
    Zeldin, T. 1994, An Intimate History of Humanity, New York: Harper Collins.
    代写SOC315 Love in History: From Chivalry to Capitalism